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Sunday, January 29, 2012

Voice of Love


There are currently 20,000 children in South Korea waiting to be adopted. Of these children, many have special needs, and their hopes are bleak for one day finding a forever family. (Of special needs children in South Korea, only 1.5% are adopted by Korean citizens via domestic adoption.)

Despite these numbers, and due in part to pressure from anti-adoption groups, there are now restrictions impacting all international adoptions. A quota has been established, drastically limiting the number of children that can be adopted internationally.

Statistically, very few children in South Korea are adopted domestically. While the government has worked overtime to promote domestic adoptions and lift cultural prejudices, it takes time to dispel long held myths regarding adopted children. Meanwhile, children wait. They remain in institutions and foster care. They grow up without ever having a forever family.

Purpose of the Voice Of Love campaign:
1.  To let the voices of those who have been blessed through international adoption be heard by the government and people of South Korea.
2.  To influence change and eliminate the international adoption quota in Korea.
3. To affirm and encourage the South Korean government in its promotion of adoption.

Why Voice of Love?
Voice of Love is a blended voice. Composed of Koreans, Korean-Americans, American churches and ministries, adoptees and their families, and friends all over the world—we are brought together by one goal: restoring the futures of waiting children and reminding South Korea that adoption is a beautiful thing.

SHARE YOUR VOICE TODAY

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Reminded Again

I was reminded again this weekend how awesome family is for a broken spirit and a less than perfect body. I had the opportunity to share with several families the joy of adding to your family through adoption with those children that wait because their bodies and spirits are less than perfect.  It makes me cry to think of all the joy I would be missing if I had passed on my waiting babes.  The labels are scary but the missed joy is an even worse fate.  

Remember this skin and bones baby with the labels prenatal HIV exposure, low birth weight, malnourished


I love to remember where she started so that when we rejoice our shouts of joy are even louder!  Tonight she was able to play with her sisters and eat dinner with the family!!!! It was awesome!!! She wears the family girl label pretty well don't you think?!


Remember this sick little one with the labels VATERAL, ASD, institutionalized, malnourished, brain abnormality, 3 months development at 10 months old?


Here she is last night at small group.  The picture is out of focus because there was too many helpers...but LOOK at her smile.  She is free from her fear and so ready to face life.  


Not only can she walk, she can run, jump and ride a bike. She wears the label super star like a rock star!!

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Remember this little girl with the labels older child, prenatal HIV exposure, early childhood trauma, will require lifelong medical attention?


Today at the beach, she was able to make a friend, swim with her, ask what her name was, and play happily without adult attention for over an hour.  She was kind to her sisters, and she was able to make it home for lunch without a melt down even though she was really hunger.  Wow!  She wears the labels sister, daughter and friend really, really well!

Remember this boy that was on rainbow kids waiting for a family? Remember the labels VSD, needs constant attention, several foster family placements? 

Noah is really awesome. Not only is he smart and clever, he is kind and creative.  He loves to read and be read to.  He is a learner, explorer and adventurer.  I LOVE having him in my family.  He has a new best friend and is full to the brim with happiness. Today, he wears the label happy and content with a smile on his face!


Friday, January 6, 2012

Monday, January 2, 2012

Welcome 2012! Goodbye 2011...

Reflecting back on the year highlighted to me how far we've come in so little time.  We are truly FAMILY.  I'm so thankful to have a space to share our many accomplishments along the way!


Alana, still going by Biruktawit at this point, turned 7.  She was unsure that birthdays come every year for everyone.  No worries, she is sure now and delightfully excited to turn 8 in a few short days.

 
We learned that Myra feels the world in a different way and our eyes are opened to Sensory Processing Disorder.  It has been a LONG year in this department but progressively better.  We are finally learning how to parent her in a way that is helpful and loving.  Myra is learning to cope in more healthy ways.  I'm starting to like her again too!!!


Eden turned 2.  She is the baby of the family and LOVES this position.  Coco gives her too much candy.  Meme lets her stay up late.  I let her do almost anything she wants too. Eden has turned a major corner this year.  She is no longer scared all the time.  She is hopeful and at peace.  The world is her's!  It is wonderful.


Noah learned to love TaeKwonDo this year.  He is a fierce, book reading warrior.  It was almost impossible for  him to test last year because he was so afraid.  But this year was a totally different story.  So big, so strong, so bold!  And so kind and loving towards others.  I think he is the best son, opa, friend around.



Eden was potty trained and Myra learned how to send me to the nut farm.


Camping in Hawaii is better than living in Hawaii.  What's not to love?  The beach, the food, the weather, dirty bodies, no sleep, surfing.  We're hooked.






Alana finished first grade.  She learned to speak, read and write English at grade level.  She began learning math and science facts.  It was a great year!


Summer time and summer school = fun times and a break for me.  We really, really enjoyed Leeward Community College Summer program.  It was more than we could have hoped for or dreamed of.  What an outstanding team of teachers!!!  It really was a dream come true.



We decided to homeschool Alana, Noah and Eden this year.  Classical Conversations and the Ewa Beach Homeschool group provided a great structure and an amazing community to our year.  We LOVE Classical Conversations too much!


Eden is officially healed.  What an amazing testimony to God's goodness in her life.  We are completely in awe of the healing that took place in her body.  We are so thankful for her wholeness!!


Andrew moved to Hawaii and Brian now has a best friend.  Here they are on one of their man dates...he won't dress the same for me but for Andrew......



Brian tells me I've been promoted to Squad Leader.  Noah and Alana have taken over the roles of Team Leaders.  They each have a partner and are responsible to watch out for their team.  I love seeing the older ones take charge and lead.  It is a good life to be sure!


My first child turned 6, lost a tooth and asked about s.e.x quickly followed by several questions about s.tar w.ar.s.  He is NOT a little boy anymore.  I love him so much and with such a deepness that it is overwhelming at times.  


Myra turned 3 and started preschool.  She has left her baby days behind and is moving full force ahead into childhood.  



Happy 2012!

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas

Loving that we had to turn the AC down to wear these cuties :)

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Christmas Picture Love









What's Up Martha!

I think the kiddos have something on Martha...don't you?